About Us
We Are Here For You!
Domestic violence and emotional abuse occur when one person uses power and control over another in an intimate relationship. It is a crime, and legal protections are available to help keep you safe. We understand that leaving an abusive relationship isn’t easy. Many survivors stay because of financial concerns, family pressure, fear for their children, fear of their partner, or other personal reasons. Whether you’re ready to leave or still figuring out what’s best for you, we’re here to walk alongside you. Support is available through Safe Haven of Pender!
Our History
In the spring of 1988 a group of volunteers, concerned with the growing number of reported (and unreported) rapes in the Pender County area pursued training on how to respond to rape calls and a rape hotline. Acknowledging this effort, the Pender County Commissioners awarded the group $500 to implement a pager system. In 1989, due to a lack of dedicated volunteers and the absence of calls, the pager program was canceled. The desire to provide resources for these victims was not diminished, however.
Services Modification 2019:
In an effort to respond effectively to the increased volume and needs of domestic violence victims and survivors, Safe Haven became a sole domestic violence shelter and services agency. Safe Haven continues to partner with the sexual assault agency to provide shelter beds for victims.
Agency Expansion 2019:
Safe Haven expanded shelter and services into Duplin County. Safe Haven currently serves Pender and Duplin Counties.
Core Values
Dignity & Choice
Survivors guide their journey; we listen, honor decisions, and protect confidentiality.
Safety First
Safety drives every decision, with practical plans for home, work, and online life.
Compassionate Care
We respond with empathy and steady support, removing barriers so services are easy to reach.
Empowerment & Independence
We help people build resources and confidence for lasting self-sufficiency.
Collaboration & Community
We team up with families, volunteers, and local partners to expand our impact and our ability to help.
Integrity & Accountability
We steward our resources wisely, learn and improve, and communicate transparently.
Our Team
Deciding to end an abusive relationship and remain free of unhealthy connections is not always easy. Our team understands your struggle, and we are here to help. Our collective group of professional, empathetic, and compassionate staff members will partner with you to ensure the safety of you and your children. You can trust that your safety, anonymity, and healthy transition are our priority. It would be our honor to serve you!
Dr. Tracey Ray, Executive Director
Lori Kirkpatrick, Communications Director
Darrius Garey, Permanent Supportive Housing Manager, Duplin County
Jillan Handzel, Permanent Supportive Housing Manager, Duplin County
Debbie Mitchell, Thrift Store General Manager
Funded In-Part By
Safe Haven of Pender empowers survivors of domestic violence to reclaim control and build self-sufficiency. Since 1988, we’ve provided shelter, advocacy, and resources while working to break the cycle of abuse, raise awareness, and hold abusers accountable.